I feel terrible for men, they are held to the standard of success, ie success objects. I have such little knowledge of this gender war crap but I'm happy I'm a sex object its better than being disposable if you don't measure up. I mean really my husband loves me as is, and I'm no size 2, last I checked I'm not even a 10. Now go look at men well they have two purposed really succeed or die. They are to few ways for them to ever really succeed, they can't get into colleges without facing discrimination and that just adds up now more than ever to no job either. There is of course the Military its the most obvious method to be disposed of, and even if they succeed there well they probably get a new set of standards and issues to match up to, or they go and end their lives because its easier, then sleeping through a flash back of smoking corpses and you're dead friends. War is such a roll of the dice my Brother had it easy in Iraq he saw no action despite being off base for 60% f his deployment. His friend oh god that guy is something he survived the worst of Iraq war. We women are free of these burdens but even we still hold men to the success standards I see my daughter and her friends do it to boys, we are pretty bad in the fact we rarely reward or care about men who die to save a child or girlfriend in events where an insane man does a bad thing.